Thursday, January 22, 2009

3rd grader's chatting

My colleague has a 3rd grader sonIn vacation, he lets his son get online every night from 7 to 9pm. During that time he chats with any of his classmate. He has to type Chinese characters using pinyin (Chinese spelling). In the 2-hour-chat, they exchange maximum around 10 sentences! LOL … !

It takes a big effort for a 3rd grader to type in Chinese. After successfully sending a message, he will wait for his friend, who surely takes similar effort to reply.

When near to 9pm, his father advised him, “Go to wash and brush your teeth. After that you can continue for a while.”  When he returned, his friend hasn’t posted out any reply .. still in typing mode. LOL … !  

He has a cousin who is fewer years older than him. She doesn't like chatting with him because of being have to wait for long time for each reply. Whenever he excitedly chats with her, she mostly replies him with a “Yupe”. 

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

studying ?

pak mertua dan rak baju

habis membeli rak pakaian dari internet. siang ini diantarkan. sebelum2nya juga udah ngasih tahu ke suami ataupun mertua soal ini.  

saat diantarkan mertua yang terima barangnya. juga udah aku kasih tau sebelumnya via telpon. 
lalu pak mertua telpon ke kantor dan aku kasih tau untuk bayar RMB 30 ke supir pengantarnya. eeeh... di telpon pak mertuaku bilang gini, "kamu tuh kurang kerjaan!" (dengan nada yang sangat gak mengenakkan terus telponnya ditutup ama dia).  gua dah membayangkan mak mertua juga pasti idem, di rumah pasti ngomel2 .. bilang beli barang gak berguna. 

asli .. langsung bikin bad mood deh!   

ini barang kalo beli di carrefour, harganya sekitar RMB 500, which is masih kudu cari pengangkut. sementara aku beli udah berikut ongkos kirim, habisnya  RMB 400. (menghemat sekitar Rp 125 ribu).  lagian, toh bukan beli sesuatu yg gak berguna. 

lagian di rumah juga ada kembarannya yang udah dipakai 3.5 tahun sejak Crystal baru lahir. ini dibeli karena anakku kan nambah satu. 

kok reseh? 

'sick' taxi driver and nice taxi driver

20-Jan
we took a taxi from the airport. 
firstly we drove to my friend's apartment on FR road. 

driver: then where will you go after that?
me: to QY road.
driver: i should turn right here if we go to QY road.
me : you can drive to her apartment first. later on you can turn back. 
driver: i won't turn back. 
me: (*began to feel annoyed*) go to her apartment first. it's raining, she will not get down and walk that far.  
(*there was more than enough space for his taxi to make a turn outside the apartment. and we continued to my apartment*)
me: please enter the gate. okey, stop here.  (my apartment was about 10 meters from the gate)
driver: cheeeeh.... why not stop and get down on the street outside. (with unfriendly and annoying voice). 

it was still raining. if i got down, i still needed to cross the street, with my bags. should i? i said nothing, paid, got my bags. i was tired and didnt want to ruin my mood by having  an argue with a mentally-sick-taxi-driver.  May God bless him! maybe he had a quarrel with his wife at home and had bad mood. 

*emang minta digampar2 nih supir*

2-Jan 
we went out with the kids. it was public holiday. there are thousands of people everywhere. almost impossible to get a taxi. while i carried Crystal who fell asleep and my husband carried Angie who also fell asleep, we walked separately. a kind taxi driver saw my husband and stopped. he was going to pick up his wife because his wife  couldn't get a taxi either in NQ area. he drove us home before picking up his wife. May God always bless this kind hearted man!  


there're still a lot of kind hearted taxi drivers. 
i saw several times in tv, some taxi drivers found package of money around 200,000 yuan or so. they submitted the money to the police. 

Friday, January 16, 2009

impian masa muda

mertuaku dua-duanya berasal dari keluarga petani, tumbuh dewasa di kampung. Bahkan suamiku pun dilahirkan di rumah kampung, bukan di klinik atau di rumah sakit. Sempet melongo juga pas tau pertama kalinya. Habis lahir, barulah dibawa ke klinik. 

FIL ku sejak lulus SMA, masuk tentara kelautan selama 18 tahun. Setelah itu bekerja di China Post sampai masa pensiun tahun 2007 lalu.  MIL karena nikah, makanya ngikut aja ke mana FIL pergi.

Ada 2 adik dari FIL dan 3 adik dari MIL yang masih tinggal di kampung, hidup dari bercocok tanam dan beternak ayam secara kecil-kecilan. kemudian, karena kampung mulai diserbu pendirian beberapa pabrik, ada juga yang mulai menjadi buruh pabrik. 

itulah sebabnya, kami sering dapat supply gratisan ayam kampung, bebek, serta sayur mayur, kacang tanah, kacang polong, cabe, bawang putih, dll .. yang bebas pestisida.

Untungnya punya sodara2 di kampung, kami dapat rutin mengkonsumsi telur ayam kampung. Tiap pagi telur rebus adalah sarapan tetap setiap orang, dari yang tua sampai para pasukan bodrex. Tiap pagi bisa mengkonsumsi 5-8 butir. 10 hari pun sudah 80 butir. Makanya FIL ku sekali beli telur bisa 200~300 butir, langsung dari kampung. (*dahsyat yah?*)

di samping itu, dapat menikmati udara desa yang bersih dan segar kalo cuaca lagi cerah.. gak terlalu panas kala summer atau gak terlalu dingin seperti winter. waktu paling ideal adalah saat musim semi, di mana2 bertebaran bunga2 kuning (coleseed flower?) atau kala musim gugur, saat padi siap disemai. 

yang ini awal spring 2005, kala sedang hamil Crystal sekitar 6 bulan. 


Kampungnya hubby juga gak jauh2 amat, sekitar 2.5 jam perjalanan, dengan bus umum + bus kecil. sekitar 1.5 jam dengan taksi.  

Katanya, FIL-ku punya jatah tanah di kampung. Aku dan hubby berandai-andai, kalo kami tua dan sudah pensiun, pengen tinggal di kampung, bercocok tanam untuk keperluan diri sendiri. ini juga impianku kala masih remaja dulu (*duileee...!*) 

kata hubby lagi, setengah tahun dalam tiap tahun pengennya bisa buat tinggal di indo. Hahahhahaa! Masih lama banget booww !!!! itupun kalo dikasih rejeki dan umur panjang. Tul gak?    

Thursday, January 15, 2009

peanuts and a girl





















foto 1) habis berantakin kacang (hasil kebun oom yg petani)
foto 2) lagi beresin setelah disuruh  
foto 3) 4) lagi ngambilin makanan burung (padi) dalam kaleng 

interesting words play



can you see the optical illusion?




the absence of good is evil 




we LEARN when we TEACH 





when you look through ME you will see YOU! 

Crystal batuk dan demam lagi

hari Minggu lalu Crystal sakit lagi. batuk dan demam. hari senin dan selasa gak masuk TK. 
terus karena males makan, mintanya kalo gak bubur yah mie-kuah-tomat. masakan yang mudah dan cepat bikinnya. masaknya sekalian buat Angie juga.  

sementara Angie juga batuk dan hidungnya meler-meler, tapi gak pakai demam. makanya 2 malam maknya kurang tidur terus. 

salah maknya juga sih ..  ngasih makan chips (semacam taro atau chiki gitu deh). langsung panas dalam dan batuk. 

dulu waktu Crystal baru umur 1 tahunan, pernah dikasih nyicip pop corn. tahunya habis tuh maknya menemukan ada darah kering di upilnya. terus batuk2 juga. nyesel deh. habis itu gak pernah ngasih pop corn ke Angie. kalo ke Crystal juga jarang, kalo pun diberi makan pop corn itupun dibatasin banget. 

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

enjoying privilege

i was buying a ready-packed soya-milk this morning. another buyer said to the seller, "Hey, i was before her." 

i was in an extreme hurry and didn't pay attention to 'who come first'.  

my 108 bus was already in the shelter which was 20 meters ahead. once i got the soya milk, i ran with high speed (without having breakfast) to catch the bus.   

*i'm so sorry to the complaint-lady*

not bcoz i didn't want to queue. indeed there was (and there is) no queue line everyday. the seller has no time to observe who come first who come last. she's just too busy, selling several items: porridge, soya milk, yoghurt, milk, bread, steam bun, shiu mai, etc. when she takes the soya milk out from the box, she will take several at the same time.   

i am a regular customer. every morning i put 1 yuan on her carriage:  "1 cup of soya-milk, no plastic bag please." the lady has known my behavior so well that she could react faster. maybe that was the most reason that i had enjoyed a special privilege. :-)  


there is a supermarket, Joy Mart (He Jia Fu) nearby our apartment.  usually there will be a queue at the cashier. there is another cashier at the cigarette-wine-tea counter: "I only buy 1 item. could i pay here?" i know so well, the answer is "Yes." and never forget a sincere "thank you!"  


not only enjoying .. i'm also generous in giving or asking privilege to others.  
the most simple one that all of us can do is giving our seat on the bus/train to the elder people, pregnant women, people carrying children in arms, disabled people. 
when you see nobody giving seat, while you are also standing, you can politely ask (*with a smile on your face*) : "sorry to disturb, could you please let your seat to this old lady? thank you so much." 

i bet people wouldn't resist you! 
be nice and people will be nice to you too! 
this will make our life beautiful and meaningful.

sulit melupakan

you still stay in a small corner in my heart.
it's so hard to totally forget you. i think i never cant. 
you often come into my dreams. 

last nite i dreamt about you again. 


Friday, January 09, 2009

autumn outing (mid-Oct-2008)


Left to right (all names were told by Crystal). the name in bracket is a nickname.

1st row – sit: Su Zilong, Han Yifan, Qian Daliu (Liu-liu), Sun Chule, Yi Sirui (Rui-rui), Ge Zhiyi, Jin Haige, Sun Bowen, Jiao Yufeng, Le Hao, Liu Yixing, Huang Yuxuan (Dou-dou)

2nd row – kneel: Sang Ruopeng (Peng-peng), Liang Yaoyu, Yi Ning, Pao Paochen, Wang Xingyu, Huang Zhihan, Chen Weiye, Crystal, Mong Zhihan, Guo Zhian ('Lil Tiger)

3rd row – stand: Wang Minghui, Liu Tianming, Hu Zhuyan (Yan-yan), Wang Zhiru, Wang Xingyu, Wang Yuping, Ren Shaoyang (Yang-yang), Xu Guojing (Mao Mao), Pai Mingtao, Hu Yiyang, Yi Yating, Yi Kexing, Hu Jixiang    

Teacher: Ms. Chen, Mrs. Shen, Mrs. Cai

Peng-Peng is our neighbor, who is 15 days bigger than Crystal

Lil Tiger has a cousin, names Big Tiger in Smarty’s class.

There are 2 kids with same name, Wang Xingyu. 

Thursday, January 08, 2009

mimpi apa

adaoww... mimpi apa dirikyu dapat dua rejeki nomplok dari bos. (*sampai bingung dan langlinglung*)
Tuhan, lagi jaman susah gini kok masih baik banget? padahal absen gereja anakMu ini bolong terus. 

what language ?

Crystal speaks mandarin (chinese) at home. 
i did try to teach her speak bahasa indonesia and sing indonesian songs. singing is okey. but it's quite difficult for speaking! everybody speaks chinese with her. (*the other problem is i am not consistent enough*). 

i think it might be difficult for her, because we also need to teach her English. 3 languages at a time? it could be too hard and confusing for her. i dont want to be too ambitious to let her speak (learn) 3 languages at the same time. 

any better suggestion / experience sharing  .. how may i teach my kids to speak bahasa indonesia, while they also need to learn English?  when will be the right time? 

emang suka bikin terharu

having daughter like Crystal, often makes me feel so touched. sometimes during bed time, she asked, "mama, have you covered yourself with quilt?" or "has Angie been well covered with quilt?" 

about 1.5 years ago, while i was having my second pregnancy, when i bathed her, she said,"Mama, be careful, it's slippery here, just now i poured water on the floor." or the other time while i played with her, suddenly she said, "Mama, lie down here, you are tired and there is baby in your belly." 

last night when we already lied on bed, 
Crys : My good mama, you are beautiful. (*touching mom's face*)
Mom: (*smile, feel so touched*) Nooo... mama is ugly.
Crys : mmm... nooo... you are beautiful!

maybe all kids are like that, in their eyes, their own moms are beautiful. (even i'm not in the category of the beauty)
  

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

lil crow loves crow mama



after watching the flash with Crystal, 
mama : if mama is sick, will you catch worm for mama? 
crystal: how could you eat worm, while you are not crow? 
mama : hoho... so will you pour water for mama if mama is sick?
crystal: yes, i will also feed you with bread 
(because i like to eat bread, and Crystal knows it). 

Sunday, January 04, 2009

Crystal read to Angie

video was taken when Angie was 5.5months & Crystal was 2yr 10.5mo.

Saturday, January 03, 2009

our 2009 new year holiday

happy new year to you all !

it’s Chinese tradition to clean the house (and everything) before Chinese lunar new year. we were going nowhere but cleaning our house during 3 days new year holiday. My mom-in-law, hubby and myself cleaned the house with Crystal and Angie playing around.


Crystal

… stuck on leaving room practiced to write numbers and do simple math, almost all the time! I stopped her but she said she wanted to do her homework. She called it ‘homework’. Well, actually nobody gave her any homework. she now can do math (using her fingers) like 18+5, 16+4, etc. 

On 1-Jan, after lunch, which she didn’t like it so much, she said she wanted to go to KFC. We brought her to KFC just last Sunday. I said, “lunch time was over, KFC was closed after lunch time. Let’s see whether they open during dinner. But mama has to ask first, because it’s new year holiday, probably all the employees are going home for holiday. If they are closed, we’ll go by tomorrow.”

When almost dinner, she said, “you said we would go to KFC for dinner.”

Mama said, “Mama told you that mama had to call KFC office first, to check whether they are open.”

I sms and called my friend, Erica, for a short drama. Hahaa.. sorry my dear! It was just too late, too cold outside and also too tired for all of us to go to KFC. So Crystal talked to the “KFC’s employee”. And agreed we took her to KFC the next day (2-Jan).

At midnight, Crystal sang an English song for mama, “happy birthday to you.. happy birthday to you …”

So on 2-Jan, we took Crystal and Angie to KFC and Pizza Hut for lunch, and bought her a Mickey-Minnie mouse balloon. She was happy! 

The other time, she modified a lyrics of a spring song like this, "butterfly lady doesn't fly and come here because it's winter time. little rabbit jump, jump, jump back home." 

 

Writing numbers…

when she wrote a “3”, usually it was slanted a bit. So she turned the book a bit during writing, so the 3 wasn’t slanted anymore after she wrote it. but sometimes she could write it well. 

At a beginning, she drew 2 circles for writing an 8. But now she could write the 8 straightly. 

tonite, when she saw Smarty writing a 7, she said, “This is not correct. This way, like this  … you copy it.” (she wrote a 7 and asked Smarty to follow by writing/tracing on it)

After she wrote some pages, she wrote a 100 as scoring for herself.

  

Angie …

… was buzzing around like a bee .. zzzz…zzzz…zzz… !

played with her sister’s crayon or color pencils, took things out from the kitchen cabinet or toy box, brought to living room, bed room, dining room .. left them all the way .. everywhere. 

Sometimes brought shoes to other people, fell on the floor and couldn’t stand up by herself (because of wearing too much cloth), sit on the potty (with diapers on), wanted to bring the potty to toilet, wanted mama to carry her up, called mama.. mama .. grandma … her nose needed cleaning coz she got slight flu, poop, … wanted to have milk, water or snack, threw or picked things to and from the trash bin .. tried to climb a plastic chair, or turned it upside down and tried to sit on it….

when I returned the things to the cabinet, she would again take it out, bring it and leave it any where. Oooooh hooooo ….!

So .. besides busy cleaning the house, I was also busy with Angie.

Thursday, January 01, 2009

人体使用手册 ... 求医不如求己

Here are  two Ebook websites:

《人体使用手册》:

http://www.kaoyao.com/fun/Human.pdf 

 

《求医不如求己
http://www.54md.com/book/catalog_9.html .  

 

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

lil penguin is 13 mo

Angie is now in the phase of “eat a lot, eat everything”During every meal, she can eat 1 bowl of porridge PLUS hal (even one) of a Chinese steamed bun. After that she still wants to eat. we don’t feed her more ... worry she might have too much and cannot digest it. 

Not long after meal time, she will ask for biscuit, fruit, or any kind of snack. Even she will pick up some snack packaging in our living room trash bin (!) searching for food! if her sis or cousin-bro drink some milk, Angie will also want to drink some .. or pick up the empty milk-pack from the trash bin. 

Oh my dear .. why you are so hungry all the time? Lol …  The funny thing is .. whenever she hears somebody tearing some snack packaging or opening a snack container, she will quickly come and ask for some .. impatiently (!) Sooo adorable…!

still doesnt speak many words, but now can also call new words like yeye(grandpa), nainai (grandma), ya (duck), er (ear), yi (one), er (two)

love to bring shoes to anybody who just come home.

if somebody says, "it's meal time" .. she will come and try to pull her own chair. she is more willing to sit on the meal-chair until finishing her meal. and eat from a spoon (as usual, impatiently). there was once, mommy called Crystal and Smarty to have some cake, but forgot to call Angie (though had prepared for her also), she stopped playing and also came hurrily.  

open all drawers, cabinets .. that she can. and get some thing out from it.

love to 'draw' with her sister's color pencils and 'read' her sis' books.

get jealous if mommy carry up her sis. she will come and 'beat' her sis. 

if mommy goes to toilet, she will cry loud at the toilet door until mommy is done. fyuuuhhh! 

she will be busy to want to pick up ringing phone

never bite people anymore. 

with 7th and 8th teeth came out.  

sometimes if other people sneeze, she said, "aaa chi"

pretend sitting on the potty and pee. after that, get a piece of cloth and wipe her own butt (with diaper on) 

there was once, after her sis pee on the potty, Angie brought the potty to toilet. (mimic what the adults always do). ok .. she messedup ... the potty dropped to the floor. she got a piece of cloth and tried to wipe the pee on the floor. oh dear ! 

Crystal is 3.5 yrs old

on sunday we walked with our girls to Carrefour. on the way near to her kindergarten, surprisingly, Crystal asked, "mama, have you locked our back door?" (*balcony door*)
my dear girl, mama never thought you would ask such question. 

last month there was a theft who climbed to our balcony. on that nite, my parents-in-law slept in the balcony bedroom and didnt lock the outer door, only locked the glass door. my FIL  found out that 2 pots of his plant were moved.  

just last nite, Smarty learnt to write 8. Crystal said she wanted to learn too. while she was practicing to write, mama washed Angie and prepared her milk before bed time.  

not like several months ago, lately if Angie annoyed her, Crystal never pushed Angie away. if she gets angry with Angie, she sometimes hit Angie with her hands, but only hits Angie slowly on her cloth. 

whenever seeing Angie tries to insert her finger into electric plug, she will remind her lil sister and scream, "do not insert your finger in it. there's electricity in it." 

whenever seeing Angie plays with small thing, she will take it away and say, "dont play with this. if you eat it,  you will choke on it." 

if she shares some cake or snack with Angie, she will chip a bit (into smaller slice) and give to Angie. 

still likes to cry out loud or yell when gets angry or disagrees on something. but okey .. the frequency is less than before. and when she gets angry she will say things like this: 
- i will throw mommy away, throw daddy away, throw everybody away
- i throw all your cloth from the window. 
- when i grow up, i will not buy a computer for you. i will buy only for myself (if she is angry that we stop her from playing with the computer) 
- i will not eat all grandpa's cook 
- you are stinky mommy .. stinky grandma, stinky brother (Smarty), stinky Angie, etc. 
- or sometimes when angry, she locks herself in our room 


likes to sing, dance, draw, write, read book, learn english vocabulary.

the other time she asked, what's her nickname in English. after telling her, she said, "Crystal love(s) mommy."  

last nite on bed, Crystal said, "Mama, deep inside, my heart is crying. i miss daddy." 

often fights with Smarty. and usually end-up with Crystal crying. Smarty likes to kick her. so we have to always be aware once both of them start an argument. but they can play and laugh together again in the next minute after the fight. 


this is the first video (ever) posted in this blog. (with Angie as the backing vocal, wanted to play with the digital camera)

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas! 圣诞快乐!



tight socks rubber

Sometimes socks that we buy are having too tight rubber, which are uncomfortable to wear.  
This is how to deal with it: 
1. Measure your leg/ankle circumference, according to the socks length, e.g. 20 cm  
2. Cut a thick carton paper with size 20 cm x 5 cm
3. Fold it to become 10cm x 5cm  
4. Wet the rubber part of the socks (with water) 
5. Insert the carton into the socks at the rubber part  
6. Iron it 'til dry  
7. Repeat step 4-6 for twice or three times

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

start to work in Fei Dong for 1 year

today officially lin will start to work for 1 year in Fei Dong District.
Hefei City is in the middle between Fei Xi District (West Fei) and Fei Dong District (East Fei).
it's about 2 hours from home .. means he can go home during weekend.

it's a kind of job training, or job rolling. i'm not sure.
he will work as a zhu-ren 主任. if translated into English, may be a kind of supervisor or director. dunno .. blur!

hope it will be a good experience for his career in the future.

Monday, December 22, 2008

crystal yang ngambek, angie yang jatuh di tangga

suhu di bawah minus 8 celcius. saat mau berangkat TK, crystal dipakaikan sepatu winter berlapis bahan cotton. eh, ngambek, maunya pakai sepatu kets biasa.  naik darah lah papa dan oma-nya. cyrstal pun kena 'hajar'. nih anak dasar kepala batu, dipukul pun gak takut tetap kekeh dengan kemauannya. sementara sepatu yang sebelah lagi gak ketemu. 

keluar dari pintu apartemen, masih aja nangis2 dan tereak-tereak dengan papa dan oma yang naik darah. 

karena pintu apartemen terbuka, keluarlah si Angie, yang baru bisa jalan. seperti di judul posting, Angie pun terjatuh di tangga, untungnya berguling 'cuman' 4 anak tangga. berhubung pakai baju winter beberapa lapis, (untung lagi!) kepalanya gak kebentur sama sekali.  

aduh nak, kenapa mesti kepala batu gitu! yang ada kan mak-mu ini yang sedih kamu kena 'hajar' papa dan oma. emang gak sakit? 

suka sebel sama suami yang terlalu keras begitu. oma lagi, malah nyalahin aku semua nurutin crystal. padahal gak demikian adanya. mereka saja yang gak tau cara nangani, terus nyalahin orang lain, nyari kambing hitam. asli sebel banget. 

Crystal kalo lagi ngambek, gak bakalan bisa diajak negosiasi, kepala batu .. biarin aja nangis/tereak2 .. kalo dicuekin juga berhenti sendiri. baru habis itu dinasihatin, dijelasin kenapa gini atau gitu. 

terus sebel banget juga, para orang dewasa teledor banget.. gak nyadar di rumah ada batita, yang baru bisa jalan. 

capek deh .. !
juga sembarangan naroh cemilan, bentuk kecil, yang gampang sekali masuk ke mulut Angie. kawatir aja kayak gituan paling gampang bikin tersedak. udah berapa kali kejadian sebelumnya, Angie masukin mainan kecil ke mulutnya. begitu aku sampai rumah, omanya ngadu dan ngomel2 (*seperti nyalahin si Angie*). lah .. anak kecil mana ngerti apa yang boleh dan tidak boleh masuk ke mulut. ngomong aja belom bisa! 

kalo diingatin, ujung2nya bete dan bilang, anak kalian.. kalian urus sendiri. kami gak ada kewajiban buat urus anak kalian. memang bener. tapi ironisnya .. begitulah di china. kebanyakan istri harus bekerja. anak dijaga oleh opa-oma. kalo istri gak kerja, ntar jadi gunjingan. mertua juga gak senang, menantu pengangguran. 


waktu mau tidur, Crystal sikat gigi, oles cream wajah dan cuci tangan. namanya anak kecil, mana ngerti cara cuci tangan yang hemat air! habis tuh mak mertua marah2. sementara aku lagi urus si Angie yang lagi mau tidur. dan kayaknya Crystal gak keterlaluan banget. aku tau banget, dia memang sedang cuci tangan dan bukan main air. 

aku prefer mendidik Crystal supaya lebih mandiri dan apa-apa bisa ngelakuin sendiri. dulu pernah biarin Crystal makan sendiri, oma-nya ngomel2, katanya bikin kotor baju. hasilnya, Crystal lebih cepat bisa pakai sendok daripada Smarty (yg 10 bulan lebih gede). barulah opa buru2 ajarin Smarty pakai sendok. dulu kalo makan sesuatu, Crystal juga pegang dan makan sendiri. sementara Smarty, mesti dicuil-cuil dan disuapkan ke mulut.. sampai ada saat di mana Smarty disodori makanan ke mulutnya, gak tau kalo harus digigit! 

waktu dah umur setahun, Smarty minum susu dengan botol masih  dipegangi oma atau opa (*jadi malas dan manja*). akhirnya, aku yang ajarin dia untuk pegang botol susu sendiri. diajarin bentar juga langsung bisa. Smarty juga suka merintah-merintah opa omanya untuk ambilin sepatu, sandal, dll. kalo pas ketauan olehku, nih anak langsung aku 'tatar'. yang bener2 bisa nangani/kasih pengertian ke Smarty (dan dia mau dengar/nurut) itu justru aku.  orang tuanya sering malah gak terlalu peduli, gak tau cara ngadepin, atau apa2 diturutin. sekarang maknya si Smarty begitu pulang dari kantor, habis makan malam, langsung online, sibuk main game internet yang mobil2an gitu deh. (*gak ngarti game apaan*).  

satu hal lagi yang selalu jadi unek2... bokap mertuaku tuh bener2 pilih kasih. contoh paling menggelikan .. setiap hari sibuk urusin Smarty, "kamu belum pup kan hari ini. kamu mau pup?" sementara Crystal, even 3 hari gak pup pun dia gak mikirin atau gak nanyain atau gak tau. yah... gitulah opanya Crystal. memang begitulah kebanyakan orang china (terutama generasi tua), anak laki kayak harta karun. anak perempuan, gak terlalu dipeduliin. 

abangnya pendarahan otak

pernah menulis 2 posting tentang orang ini karena saking bete diriku dibuatnya .. akhirnya isi salah satu posting aku hapus begitu tau suaminya diopname gara2 sakit jantung dan paru2 kemasukan air (gara2 berenang). dan itupun yang kala suaminya diopname, nih orang masih sempet2nya pergi berenang. 

pernah berapa kali super bete pengen cari kerjaan baru, pengen buka restoran indo aja .. juga karena orang ini. 

beberapa minggu lalu, abangnya masuk rumah sakit karena otaknya mengalami pendarahan dan nyawa sempat terancam. yang kalo dioperasi risikonya lebih tinggi karena abangnya mengidap diabetes. akhirnya satu2nya cara adalah berobat jalan. sudah agak baikan dibanding beberapa minggu lalu, dah mulai bisa memakan bubur. mudah2an bisa lekas sembuh.

penyebabnya: kecanduan minuman beralkohol ! 

mudah2an menjadi pelajaran untuk kita semua, jangan sampai kecanduan alkohol .. bisa dibayar dengan nyawa lho!

 

Sunday, December 21, 2008

stickers

picture taken by nokia mobile

7th and 8th teeth

finally the 7th and 8th came out. 
the canine teeth (cuspid) seemed to grow since last month .. but not come out 'til now.
she was cranky last nite, woke up so many times during sleep .. i thought bcoz of her teething stage. 



At what age will my baby start teething?Most babies begin to teethe when they are 4-6 months old, but there is no "right" answer. Babies begin to teethe when they are as young as two months and others as old as a year. If you have specific concerns, ask your pediatrician or pedodontist.How long does teething last?It may take your baby up to 3 weeks to cut a single tooth. Once the process begins, it will continue until all 20 baby teeth have come in, usually by the age of 3 years, although every baby is different.What can I expect when my baby is teething?
Crankiness and irritability.
Excess drooling or crying.
Waking up at night or difficulty sleeping.
Babies may also gnaw on objects or rub their gums.