Sunday, July 27, 2008
Qiqi -- 8 months
Wah, gak kerasa yah.. tau2 dah 8 bulan aja!Dulu setelah 8 bulan, Crystal udah stop asi.
Gara2 waktu tuh maknya sering tugas keluar kota, si oma takut Crystal nagih pas maknya lagi gak di rumah. takut gak bisa nanggulangi. (nyesal juga maknya, mestinya lanjut aja sebisanya)
Qiqi masih lanjut asi-nya. Walaupun kayaknya produksi menurun. di kantor masih diperas dan dibawa pulang buat esoknya.
dulu pas Crystal, pernah coba peras asi, terus diberikan di hari berikutnya. tau2nya pertama kali nyoba, si Crystal muntah. dulu kirain asi-nya basi. akhirnya perasan asi di kantor selalu dibuang. setelah nyoba lagi dg Qiqi, kupikir kayaknya dulu mungkin memang kebetulan aja hari itu si Crystal gak fit.
jadi Crystal dpt asi gak sebanyak Qiqi. dulu Qiqi tuh full ASI 3 bulan. kalo Crystal sejak lahir dah campur formula. ini juga gara2 si oma selalu bilang jangan ngutang susu ke si kecil. mak baru tau setelah waktu baca petunjuk rs theresia (jambi), kalo asi di 4 bulan pertama sudah mencukupi. dan ternyata selama 3 bulan pertama (masa cuti) memang cukup kok. asal sehabis nyusuin, maknya langsung "isi bensin".
kayaknya giginya masih 2 yang di bawah. yang di atas masih belom nongol.
Qiqi dah bisa duduk dari posisi tengkurep. mulai dikit2 merangkak, walaupun sering "keperosot" jadi tengkurap lagi.tgl 24-Jul maren, mulai bisa tepuk tangan (kalo disuruh). tepuk tangannya lucu, yang tangan kiri, biasa .. yang kanan mengepal. setelah nepuk beberapa kali, dia akan menggengam kedua tangan di depan dada buat gerakan "gongxi" (kionghi).
paling gak suka dipakain topi. kalo dipakain, bisa dicopot dalam sekian detik.
masih tahap gemar merobek tisu atau kertas.
tahap gemar memakan apa saja agak berkurang.
masih tahap gemar merobek tisu atau kertas.
tahap gemar memakan apa saja agak berkurang.sekarang maknya mulai mendudukkan di pispot kalo pipis atau pup. kalo waktunya pas, dia akan pipis atau pup. tapi kalo lagi gak ada, dia akan meronta2, menggeliat kayak ulet.
yang lucu kalo digendong papa-nya. sekarang kan lagi summer. kalo di rumah, papanya suka gak pakai baju. kalo gendong si Qiqi, tangannya langsung menjambak bulu ketek papanya. itu suka dijadiin alesan oleh papanya supaya gak usah gendong. soalnya si kecil kalo maknya di rumah, gak mau digendong papanya.
kalo gendong Qiqi jadi gampang keringatan, Qiqi tuh kayak ulet, suka menggeliat, suka muter2in badannya, suka manjat ke badan yang gendong. kalo misal maknya mau ngelakuin sesuatu, minta papanya or oma/opa buat gendong, si Qiqi langsung membuang atau menyembunyikan mukanya atau menjambak kencang2 baju maknya. kalo sudah pindah tangan, langsung merengek2. udah gitu, papanya suka lupa dipipiskan, jadi sering kena ompol. hihihi..
pernah sekali papanya bilang, "mama gak mau kamu." eeh.. Qiqi langsung nangis. terus papanya bilang, "iya deh..mama mau sama kamu." berhenti nangis. terus papanya coba lagi, "mama gak mau sama kamu." eeh..nangis lagi. "oh..oh..mau deh..mau deh...". berhenti nangis.
seolah2 dia ngerti apa yang kita omongkan.
Qiqi biasanya lebih anteng kalo diajak mandi atau diajak duduk di kursi goyang.
yang lucu kalo digendong papa-nya. sekarang kan lagi summer. kalo di rumah, papanya suka gak pakai baju. kalo gendong si Qiqi, tangannya langsung menjambak bulu ketek papanya. itu suka dijadiin alesan oleh papanya supaya gak usah gendong. soalnya si kecil kalo maknya di rumah, gak mau digendong papanya.
kalo gendong Qiqi jadi gampang keringatan, Qiqi tuh kayak ulet, suka menggeliat, suka muter2in badannya, suka manjat ke badan yang gendong. kalo misal maknya mau ngelakuin sesuatu, minta papanya or oma/opa buat gendong, si Qiqi langsung membuang atau menyembunyikan mukanya atau menjambak kencang2 baju maknya. kalo sudah pindah tangan, langsung merengek2. udah gitu, papanya suka lupa dipipiskan, jadi sering kena ompol. hihihi..
pernah sekali papanya bilang, "mama gak mau kamu." eeh.. Qiqi langsung nangis. terus papanya bilang, "iya deh..mama mau sama kamu." berhenti nangis. terus papanya coba lagi, "mama gak mau sama kamu." eeh..nangis lagi. "oh..oh..mau deh..mau deh...". berhenti nangis.
seolah2 dia ngerti apa yang kita omongkan.
Qiqi biasanya lebih anteng kalo diajak mandi atau diajak duduk di kursi goyang.
Friday, July 25, 2008
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Monday, July 21, 2008
masih tentang orang yg nyebelin
berhubung sama2 cewek, jadi kita sekamarlah di hotel. duuh... gua dari dulu emang suka berasa gak nyaman kalo dekat2 die. bawaan aura kali yah ... hahahaha..!
lagi 'dapet' tuh die-nya. terus pipis tuh berapa kali gak nyirem. jadi tiap gua mau pipis kedapetan toilet tuh ada 'ampao' nya. keki juga! sementara gua tuh bukan tipe orang yang blak-blakan langsung negur. sutralah .. mestinya kayak ginian kesadaran sendiri aja.
di sini wc-nya wc kering semua. kalo gua tuh, kalo lagi dapet, ngebuang pun at least dibungkus2 dulu lah, biar gak vulgar. tapi di sini orang2 tuh di mana pun, buang yah langsung aja buang dengan vulgar, jadi "menganga" gitu deh pembalutnya.
gua tuh suka mual kalo lihat yang begituan. mbok.. rapi dikit, kasian orang lain yg mau gak mau, terpaksa gak terpaksa mesti ngelihat. atau kasian orang2 yang tugasnya ngebersihin toilet. udah gajinya kecil, mesti ngebersihin tisu2 bekas kita, mesti lihat pula panorama 'ampao' gitu. mending kalo ampaonya berduit.
lagi 'dapet' tuh die-nya. terus pipis tuh berapa kali gak nyirem. jadi tiap gua mau pipis kedapetan toilet tuh ada 'ampao' nya. keki juga! sementara gua tuh bukan tipe orang yang blak-blakan langsung negur. sutralah .. mestinya kayak ginian kesadaran sendiri aja.
di sini wc-nya wc kering semua. kalo gua tuh, kalo lagi dapet, ngebuang pun at least dibungkus2 dulu lah, biar gak vulgar. tapi di sini orang2 tuh di mana pun, buang yah langsung aja buang dengan vulgar, jadi "menganga" gitu deh pembalutnya.
gua tuh suka mual kalo lihat yang begituan. mbok.. rapi dikit, kasian orang lain yg mau gak mau, terpaksa gak terpaksa mesti ngelihat. atau kasian orang2 yang tugasnya ngebersihin toilet. udah gajinya kecil, mesti ngebersihin tisu2 bekas kita, mesti lihat pula panorama 'ampao' gitu. mending kalo ampaonya berduit.
Angie .. separation anciety?
when mama came back home, Cyrstal of course was the first one to greet mama. then she said, "Mama, did you buy a new watch?" Cyrstal, as usual, always has good observation ability.
yeah... while waiting for my flight for nearly 2 hours at Pudong Airport (Shanghai), i looked into those duty free stores. finally, bought one .. which was not 5 or 8 yuans. :")
while taking off my shoes, i called Angie. Angie was in grandma's arms. she was observing mama for some time, probably thinking .. "who's this? looks so familiar!" she put her face on grandms's shoulder, smiled shily. after half a minute, she reached her arms to mama.
grandma said Angie was very fine during 3 nites sleep without mama. no separation anciety. when she woke up in the middle of the nite, they just let her drink some water. then she fell asleep again.
never being fussy for these 3.5 days. thank you my dear for not giving hard time to grandpa and grandma. =)
yeah... while waiting for my flight for nearly 2 hours at Pudong Airport (Shanghai), i looked into those duty free stores. finally, bought one .. which was not 5 or 8 yuans. :")
while taking off my shoes, i called Angie. Angie was in grandma's arms. she was observing mama for some time, probably thinking .. "who's this? looks so familiar!" she put her face on grandms's shoulder, smiled shily. after half a minute, she reached her arms to mama.
grandma said Angie was very fine during 3 nites sleep without mama. no separation anciety. when she woke up in the middle of the nite, they just let her drink some water. then she fell asleep again.
never being fussy for these 3.5 days. thank you my dear for not giving hard time to grandpa and grandma. =)
Saturday, July 12, 2008
lupa diri
- isi posting sebelumnya aku hapus, terus terang menyesal sudah nulis posting ini. walau istrinya rada2 gimana gitu .. barusan (1-Aug-2008) dengar kabar suaminya sakit. kasian..., mudah2an gapapa dan cepat sembuh -
Friday, July 11, 2008
gigiku ... oh gigiku ...!
seandainya boleh minta sama Tuhan, aku pengen minta ganti gigi nih! kata dokter, gigiku rapuh. aku rasa 80% gigiku sudah tambal sulam semua. hiks...! (*sighhhhh*)
seandainya suruh nyanyi lagunya meggi z, aku akan nyanyi gini...
daripada sakit gigi, lebih baik sakit di hatiiiii... biar tak mengapa.
suer, sakit gigi itu paling gak enak deh. menderita deh! mending sakit hati, dengerin musik or jalan2 bentar juga dah okeh kok.
tgl 1 dan 10 Juli lalu aku check up ke dokter gigi. ada 3 gigi yang ditambal, 1 gigi lagi diobati dulu baru ditambal. total habis 400 yuan. rata2 per gigi 100 yuan, atau 130 ribu rp.
murah sih .. kalo di indo, 20 tahun lalu aja tambal gigi dah kena 75ribu per gigi.
seandainya suruh nyanyi lagunya meggi z, aku akan nyanyi gini...
daripada sakit gigi, lebih baik sakit di hatiiiii... biar tak mengapa.
suer, sakit gigi itu paling gak enak deh. menderita deh! mending sakit hati, dengerin musik or jalan2 bentar juga dah okeh kok.
tgl 1 dan 10 Juli lalu aku check up ke dokter gigi. ada 3 gigi yang ditambal, 1 gigi lagi diobati dulu baru ditambal. total habis 400 yuan. rata2 per gigi 100 yuan, atau 130 ribu rp.
murah sih .. kalo di indo, 20 tahun lalu aja tambal gigi dah kena 75ribu per gigi.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
rabbit and wolf
Monday, July 07, 2008
Angie's teeth
Angie has 2 teeth now. we can hear the sound of her teeth touching spoon when feeding her. "tick..tick..tick.."
she eats everything !
i fed her some cheese few days ago and fed her ice cream and yoghurt yesterday. haha..certainly she loved it!
she eats everything !
i fed her some cheese few days ago and fed her ice cream and yoghurt yesterday. haha..certainly she loved it!
she can sit more stably now. but she is much more difficult to take care of compare to Cyrstal. when we carry her in arms, she always wants to turn her body in all direction. when we carry her by sitting down, she wants to stand up.
but she is much easier to feed! she can eat faster then her sis. hahaha!
when mama's at home, she doesnt want other people to carry her.
she loves to bathe. when washing her face, she moves as if she wants to jump into her wash basin. and when in her basin, she grabs the basin side firmly, worries she might fall.
mama will have to go to singapore on 14 july and return by 17 july. so there will be 3 nites when Angie will sleep without mama. oh dear .. hope you are ok by that time!
aduh.. 3 hari gak nyusu, mudah2an Asi mama gak kering yah, nak-ku !
on Saturday, Angie waved with grandpa and later on with grandma when they went out.
when mama told her, "this is jie-jie (sister)." she sometimes says, "dee! dee!"
last week grandma said, "it's so hot!" she said, "yot..yot..yot.." (translated from chinese)
if we bring potty for letting her pee, she will immediately protests by kicking in the air in our arms, as if she were saying, "i dont want to pee." =)
creative girl
Mom cooked abalone (bao yu) yesterday.
After lunch Crystal said, "Mama, you are so kind to cook fish (yu) for me. It's awfully delicious!"
Oh, my dear, mommy was flattered!
Once, I cooked cauliflower. She said, "Mama, this is not delicious. Next time please don't cook this." =)
Creative .. Imaginative .. ?!
We think Crystal is quite a creative or imaginative girl.
* She once pretended calling her uncle, and chat with him for almost 10 minutes.
* Another time, she pretended calling his cousin's grandma (wai-po), and said, "Oh, so your phone number there is 5533235."
* She also likes to change songs lyrics or the way of singing a song.
* When we ask our home phone number, she will say it in such a funny way, then laugh madly about it.
* When listening to songs, she pretends playing the piano.
* When playing stone-scissors-cloth, she will add “gun” (using thumb and index finger) and say bang..bang..bang..!
* when I tell her story about rabbit, elephant and wolf; she uses her hands posing elephant's nose.
.. but no .. she doesn't have imaginary friend.
Language development
Lately during speaking, she begins to use many adverb, conjunction or preposition which we think quite rare to be used by kid, such as:
originally本来; finally终于; then然后; certainly当然; surely肯定; therefore所以; formerly原来
Do something by herself
* Sometimes she will eat by herself if mama is not at home. But if mama's at home, hmmm.. she just wants mama to feed her.
* Once she pooped on the potty. When finished, she brought the potty and poured the pooppy into toilet and brushed the potty. OH-HO ..! of course she messed up a bit while brushing the potty. she brushed it without pouring some water in it. Yeaaaaeeee .. grandpa found out and cleaned the potty for her!
* last nite, actually she was playing with mom .. when seeing cloths on the bed, she folded it one by one. so mom helped her a bit on difficult part. Oh my .. ! this had brought me back to 30 years ago .. my mom said, I had helped my mom folding cloths and swept floor when I was about 5 years old.
* she's also grandma and mama's good helper when we're taking care of Angie. often she helps grandma takes some cloth diapers, brings the potty to grandma, takes the bowl into the kitchen, turns on the fan, etc. sometimes she watches Angie to prevent her from falling from the bed.
* once she took a facial paper and wiped Angie's nose.
oh my dearest girl, you are growing up bit by bit .. day by day !
how mom and dad love you!
After lunch Crystal said, "Mama, you are so kind to cook fish (yu) for me. It's awfully delicious!"
Oh, my dear, mommy was flattered!
Once, I cooked cauliflower. She said, "Mama, this is not delicious. Next time please don't cook this." =)
Creative .. Imaginative .. ?!We think Crystal is quite a creative or imaginative girl.
* She once pretended calling her uncle, and chat with him for almost 10 minutes.
* Another time, she pretended calling his cousin's grandma (wai-po), and said, "Oh, so your phone number there is 5533235."
* She also likes to change songs lyrics or the way of singing a song.
* When we ask our home phone number, she will say it in such a funny way, then laugh madly about it.
* When listening to songs, she pretends playing the piano.
* When playing stone-scissors-cloth, she will add “gun” (using thumb and index finger) and say bang..bang..bang..!
* when I tell her story about rabbit, elephant and wolf; she uses her hands posing elephant's nose.
.. but no .. she doesn't have imaginary friend.
THIS is one of Crystal's creation; duck mama and duck babies
Language development
Lately during speaking, she begins to use many adverb, conjunction or preposition which we think quite rare to be used by kid, such as:
originally本来; finally终于; then然后; certainly当然; surely肯定; therefore所以; formerly原来
Do something by herself
* Sometimes she will eat by herself if mama is not at home. But if mama's at home, hmmm.. she just wants mama to feed her.
* Once she pooped on the potty. When finished, she brought the potty and poured the pooppy into toilet and brushed the potty. OH-HO ..! of course she messed up a bit while brushing the potty. she brushed it without pouring some water in it. Yeaaaaeeee .. grandpa found out and cleaned the potty for her!
* last nite, actually she was playing with mom .. when seeing cloths on the bed, she folded it one by one. so mom helped her a bit on difficult part. Oh my .. ! this had brought me back to 30 years ago .. my mom said, I had helped my mom folding cloths and swept floor when I was about 5 years old.
* she's also grandma and mama's good helper when we're taking care of Angie. often she helps grandma takes some cloth diapers, brings the potty to grandma, takes the bowl into the kitchen, turns on the fan, etc. sometimes she watches Angie to prevent her from falling from the bed.
* once she took a facial paper and wiped Angie's nose.
oh my dearest girl, you are growing up bit by bit .. day by day !
how mom and dad love you!
Sunday, July 06, 2008
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
kamu jangan omong yah.. (masih soal Crystal)
mama bawel kali yah?
kali mama udah jadi orang super bawel yah.. mesti instropeksi nih!
gini nih .. ceritanya.
Crystal kan memang belakangan mulai 'nakal'.
kadang suka susah dibilangi, suka gak mau denger. jadi kadang mama mesti ngomong atau ngingetin berulang2.
misalnya, mama bilang, "yang satu sendok ini mama suapin, terus sendok berikutnya kamu makan sendiri yah."
tapi karena makannya & nelannya kadang suka lama banget, mama jadi ngulang ngomongnya buat ngingetin.
eh... taunya Crystal bilang ke mama gini, "mama..kamu jangan omong yah?"
maksudnya dia sih bukan perintahin mamanya buat diam, tapi maksudnya dia .. aku dah tau, mama gak usah ngingetin lagi dan aku akan lakukan kok.
kalo dah gitu, mama akan bilang, "baiklah. mama gak ngomong lagi." sambil nungguin dia ngelakuin sesuatu yang mama minta, walaupun lambaaaaat sekali gerakannya. jadi mesti sabarrrrr.... sabaaaarrrr.... sabar yah mam !
gaul dikit yah nak ..!
kemarin hari pertama libur day-care. untung seharian di rumah gak bandel, kata oma opa, Crystal seharian ini akur dan gak mukulin kokonya. baguslah nak, mudah2an bisa dipertahankan.
waktu mama ajak Crystal dan Angie jalan2 ke taman sepulang dari kerja, juga udah janjian dulu, Crystal gak boleh ngambek dan nurut kata mama.
di taman 2 hari lalu dapat teman baru, namanya Wang Yuxuan. teman sekelasnya Smarty. sejak awal dia mengira Crystal itu nicknamenya Tang-Tang. dia tahu kalo Crystal itu adik (sepupunya) Smarty. sebenarnya lebih tepatnya, mama yang dapat teman baru .. hehehe.. soalnya Crystal masih kurang berani untuk bersosialisasi. diajak ngomong oleh Wang Yuxuan, dia kebanyakan diam. jadi mereka main kejar2an, tapi gak ngobrol.
pas kita-kita udah mau pulang, Wang Yuxuan malah narikin baju mama gak boleh kasih pulang, soalnya dia masih pengen maen bareng Crystal dan mama. terus janjian ketemu lagi hari senen maren. makanya mama ajak Crystal main ke taman lagi kemaren.
mama pikir ada baiknya Crystal punya teman, supaya banyak belajar bersosialisasi.
seringkali ada orang datang ke rumah, Crystal maunya ngumpet aja. disuruh manggil tante atau oom, dstnya... suka malu2, malah kadang gak mau buka mulut.
temannya, tetangga depan pintu, datang main, ajakin Crystal ngomong, Crystal juga dieeeem aja .. gak nyahutin.
aduuuh... gimana toh ini? kok "diem" banget sih?
apa Crystal itu introvert yah?
Monday, June 30, 2008
Crystal's 3rd bday
Crystal 3 tahun hari ini.
Dapat kado buku dari mama hari jumat kemaren. Bukunya isinya bersifat mengasah kemampuan berpikir, mengamati, mengungkapkan ide, berbahasa, dsbnya. Dia senang sekali, bukunya sering dibuka. Dan sering ngajak mama atau papa bareng2 lihatnya. Kadang mulut papa dan mama sampe kering .. soalnya suka minta diulang2. Sementara Angie di samping ikut ngerecokin .. bukunya mau dirobek-robek atau dimasukin ke mulut. Hahahaa...!
SUKA NGAMBEK
Crystal makin pinter tapi juga makin nakal. Sudah punya pemikiran dan kemauan sendiri. Tapi kalo kemauannya gak dituruti, langsung ngambek.
Pernah satu kali pulang kerja, mama ngajak Crystal dan Angie jalan2 ke taman. terus dia mau minta dibeliin telur burung puyuh rebus. Kebetulan mama gak bawa uang, terus dia ngambek.
Dibilangi baik2, gak mau denger. Akhirnya mama tinggal sambil terus jalan pulang.
Dia ngejar sambil nangis sejadi-jadinya. Bahkan sampai loncat2 dan duduk di lantai batu.
Sampai celananya kotor oleh debu.
Orang2 sampai mau beliin dia, tapi mama berkeras, gak boleh nurutin semua kemauannya dia.
Akhirnya mama gendong dia dengan paksa buat nyeberang jalan, sambil gendong Angie.
Dia meronta-ronta dan nangis2 tentunya. Sampai di seberang jalan, setelah agak dekat ke rumah, mama turuni lagi di trotoar. Mama tinggal lagi dengan dia ngejar2 di belakang sambil nangis2 dahsyat.
Pusing juga ngadepin anak yang suka ngambek dan gak mau denger kalo dibilangi baik2.
Untung tamannya gak jauh dari rumah. Hanya sekitar 5 menit jalan kaki.
Kalo ngambek dan nangis2, sekali-sekali kalo terlalu dahsyat nangisnya, bisa sampai muntah.
Kadang kalo sudah keterlaluan nakalnya dan gak mau dengerin, mama atau papa pukul pantatnya. Dikasih time-out gak mempan. Soalnya dia langsung meninggalkan tempat time-out, gak mau disetrap. Akhirnya mama kurung di balkon. Sampai dia mau ngaku salah, baru dikasih masuk.Tiap kali dia sudah mau ngaku salah, dia datang memeluk mama terus bilang gak ngulang lagi, terus bilang, "mama jangan marah."
Hoho ... namanya juga anak kecil, kalo buat salah, yah tetap aja sering diulang lagi.
Tapi ada juga sedikit kemajuan.
Suatu masa, dia suka nyuruh mama ambilin ini itu. Satu kali dia suruh mama ambilin sandal, terus mama suruh ambil sendiri .. eh.. ngambek dong! Setengah jam nangisnya! dan mama biarin aja ngangis setengah jam. Akhirnya habis juga kesabaran mama, kok gak berhenti2 nangisnya, mama kurung di balkon, baru dia ngaku salah.
Sejak itu, kalo moodnya lagi baik, dia suka bilang, "mama, kalo aku bisa ambil sendiri, aku akan ambil sendiri." Atau "kalo aku bisa lakukan sendiri, aku akan lakukan sendiri."
Kalo udah lagi ngomong gitu, manis banget deh. Hahahaha!
Kalo dia lagi lupa, nyuruh ngambilin sesuatu, mama ingatin peristiwa sandal, dia langsung sadar dan bilang, "aku ambil sendiri deh."
Kalo mood lagi baik, Crystal memang manis kok. Pernah oma gendong Angie di balkon. Crystal langsung ambil bangku untuk oma, sambil bilang, "oma, kamu duduk aja. Capek kalo berdiri terus sambil gendong Qiqi."
Kalo papa lagi gendong Angie untuk pipis ke pispot, dia juga tanpa disuruh langsung ambil bangku untuk papa, biar papa gak usah jongkok2. soalnya kan Angie gak langsung pipis, kadang masih beberapa saat, kadang malah meronta2 gak mau digendong untuk pipis.
SUKA MUKUL ATAU SAY BAD WORDS
Dulu Smarty yang suka mukul Crystal. Sekarang giliran Crystal yang suka mukul Smarty.
Walaupun Crystal gak pernah mukul dengan keras, tapi judulnya di pikiran Smarty tetap aja mukul. Bahkan nyentuh sedikit aja, langsung dianggap 'mukul.'
Smarty sekarang sedang dalam tahap 'suka ngadu'.
Sedikit2 .. "Tante, Crystal mukul aku... Tante, crystal bilang aku bau pup, kamu nasihatin dia... Oom, Crystal tadi mukul aku... Opa, Crystal bilang aku bau pup. Tante, Crystal gak kasih aku baca bukunya. dstnya..."
Rasanya sudah beratus kali si Crystal diingatin untuk gak mukulin kokonya, gak bilang kokonya bau pup, mesti share barang/mainan/buku dengan kokonya .. tapi tetap aja, dia kalo lagi gak senang, yah mukul atau ngomongi bau pup atau gak mau share. Seringkali juga gara-gara Smarty yang mulai duluan ngusik dia, baru deh dia mukul.
Bau pup itu dia belajar ngomongnya dari Smarty juga. Hahahahaha...!
Kadang capek juga tiap kali mesti dengerin Smarty ngadu. Even, baru pulang kerja dan buka pintu, Smarty dah langsung ngadu. Mungkin dia senang juga, kalo misal ngadu terus kita menasihatin Crystal kalo gak bener mukul Smarty. Jadinya setiap kali Smarty jadi senang ngadu deh.
Aduh pusing juga yah ngajarin anak kecil itu.
Dapat kado buku dari mama hari jumat kemaren. Bukunya isinya bersifat mengasah kemampuan berpikir, mengamati, mengungkapkan ide, berbahasa, dsbnya. Dia senang sekali, bukunya sering dibuka. Dan sering ngajak mama atau papa bareng2 lihatnya. Kadang mulut papa dan mama sampe kering .. soalnya suka minta diulang2. Sementara Angie di samping ikut ngerecokin .. bukunya mau dirobek-robek atau dimasukin ke mulut. Hahahaa...!
SUKA NGAMBEK
Crystal makin pinter tapi juga makin nakal. Sudah punya pemikiran dan kemauan sendiri. Tapi kalo kemauannya gak dituruti, langsung ngambek.
Pernah satu kali pulang kerja, mama ngajak Crystal dan Angie jalan2 ke taman. terus dia mau minta dibeliin telur burung puyuh rebus. Kebetulan mama gak bawa uang, terus dia ngambek.
Dibilangi baik2, gak mau denger. Akhirnya mama tinggal sambil terus jalan pulang.
Dia ngejar sambil nangis sejadi-jadinya. Bahkan sampai loncat2 dan duduk di lantai batu.
Sampai celananya kotor oleh debu.
Orang2 sampai mau beliin dia, tapi mama berkeras, gak boleh nurutin semua kemauannya dia.
Akhirnya mama gendong dia dengan paksa buat nyeberang jalan, sambil gendong Angie.
Dia meronta-ronta dan nangis2 tentunya. Sampai di seberang jalan, setelah agak dekat ke rumah, mama turuni lagi di trotoar. Mama tinggal lagi dengan dia ngejar2 di belakang sambil nangis2 dahsyat.
Pusing juga ngadepin anak yang suka ngambek dan gak mau denger kalo dibilangi baik2.
Untung tamannya gak jauh dari rumah. Hanya sekitar 5 menit jalan kaki.
Kalo ngambek dan nangis2, sekali-sekali kalo terlalu dahsyat nangisnya, bisa sampai muntah.
Kadang kalo sudah keterlaluan nakalnya dan gak mau dengerin, mama atau papa pukul pantatnya. Dikasih time-out gak mempan. Soalnya dia langsung meninggalkan tempat time-out, gak mau disetrap. Akhirnya mama kurung di balkon. Sampai dia mau ngaku salah, baru dikasih masuk.Tiap kali dia sudah mau ngaku salah, dia datang memeluk mama terus bilang gak ngulang lagi, terus bilang, "mama jangan marah."
Hoho ... namanya juga anak kecil, kalo buat salah, yah tetap aja sering diulang lagi.
Tapi ada juga sedikit kemajuan.
Suatu masa, dia suka nyuruh mama ambilin ini itu. Satu kali dia suruh mama ambilin sandal, terus mama suruh ambil sendiri .. eh.. ngambek dong! Setengah jam nangisnya! dan mama biarin aja ngangis setengah jam. Akhirnya habis juga kesabaran mama, kok gak berhenti2 nangisnya, mama kurung di balkon, baru dia ngaku salah.
Sejak itu, kalo moodnya lagi baik, dia suka bilang, "mama, kalo aku bisa ambil sendiri, aku akan ambil sendiri." Atau "kalo aku bisa lakukan sendiri, aku akan lakukan sendiri."
Kalo udah lagi ngomong gitu, manis banget deh. Hahahaha!
Kalo dia lagi lupa, nyuruh ngambilin sesuatu, mama ingatin peristiwa sandal, dia langsung sadar dan bilang, "aku ambil sendiri deh."
Kalo mood lagi baik, Crystal memang manis kok. Pernah oma gendong Angie di balkon. Crystal langsung ambil bangku untuk oma, sambil bilang, "oma, kamu duduk aja. Capek kalo berdiri terus sambil gendong Qiqi."
Kalo papa lagi gendong Angie untuk pipis ke pispot, dia juga tanpa disuruh langsung ambil bangku untuk papa, biar papa gak usah jongkok2. soalnya kan Angie gak langsung pipis, kadang masih beberapa saat, kadang malah meronta2 gak mau digendong untuk pipis.
SUKA MUKUL ATAU SAY BAD WORDS
Dulu Smarty yang suka mukul Crystal. Sekarang giliran Crystal yang suka mukul Smarty.
Walaupun Crystal gak pernah mukul dengan keras, tapi judulnya di pikiran Smarty tetap aja mukul. Bahkan nyentuh sedikit aja, langsung dianggap 'mukul.'
Smarty sekarang sedang dalam tahap 'suka ngadu'.
Sedikit2 .. "Tante, Crystal mukul aku... Tante, crystal bilang aku bau pup, kamu nasihatin dia... Oom, Crystal tadi mukul aku... Opa, Crystal bilang aku bau pup. Tante, Crystal gak kasih aku baca bukunya. dstnya..."
Rasanya sudah beratus kali si Crystal diingatin untuk gak mukulin kokonya, gak bilang kokonya bau pup, mesti share barang/mainan/buku dengan kokonya .. tapi tetap aja, dia kalo lagi gak senang, yah mukul atau ngomongi bau pup atau gak mau share. Seringkali juga gara-gara Smarty yang mulai duluan ngusik dia, baru deh dia mukul.
Bau pup itu dia belajar ngomongnya dari Smarty juga. Hahahahaha...!
Kadang capek juga tiap kali mesti dengerin Smarty ngadu. Even, baru pulang kerja dan buka pintu, Smarty dah langsung ngadu. Mungkin dia senang juga, kalo misal ngadu terus kita menasihatin Crystal kalo gak bener mukul Smarty. Jadinya setiap kali Smarty jadi senang ngadu deh.
Aduh pusing juga yah ngajarin anak kecil itu.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Friday, June 27, 2008
Angie -- 7 month with 2 first teeth
mulai ada tanda2 tumbuh 2 gigi pertama. kalo diraba pelan2 gusinya, kerasa ada gigi yang bakal nongol.suka bilang, "ke-ta" atau "te-ta" .. kadang bilang "ao-ta".
"ao-ta" itu kebiasaan orang tiociu kalo main pick-a-boo. atau kalo bahasa indonya kita bilang "ci-luk-ba"
Angie kadang sudah bisa main pick-a-boo. kain ditutupin ke mukanya sendiri, terus dia buka dan bilang, "ao-ta" atau "ta".
kadang mengeluarkan bunyi "pa" atau "ma". tapi belom specifically manggil papa atau mama tentunya.
demennya ngambilin kacamata orang. atau narikin rambut siapa aja yang bisa digapai oleh tangan kecilnya.
kalo makan .. mmm...hebat sekali! lebih hebat dari cicinya deh! kadang sampe ngerebut sendok yang masih kita tiup2in buburnya yang masih rada panas dikit.terus langsung diarahkan ke mulutnya sendiri.
pernah oma lagi makan peach sambil gendong dia. dia langsung narik tangan omanya kencang2, dan peach yang di tangan oma langsung disergap sambil teriak, "aaah!"
kalo makan bubur bisa habis sampe 3/4 mangkok.
nakalnya tuh kalo alo lagi nyusu, even di gendongan mama atau sambil baringan di tempat tidur, dia tuh bisa sambil nyusu sambil tengkurep. atau sambil main-main, ngajakin mamanya ketawa. kadang pantatnya digeser-geser sampai turun dari pangkuan. kadang sambil narikin rambut mamanya atau ngambilin kacamata mama, mencetin hidung mamanya .. ada aja deh ulahnya. jadi kalo nyusuin, mama suka nyopot kacamata aja. kadang2 pura2 gak mau lihatin dia... tapi dia tuh ngundang banget untuk diajak ketawa...hehehehee...!
oh ya, dah bisa duduk lebih tapi agak oleng2 dikit.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Tuhan itu aneh yah
Mau share sedikit cerita, hal kecil sih.tapi cuman mau ngasih tau, Tuhan itu memang baik.
Ingat cerita soal naik gaji beberapa waktu lalu? Waktu itu belom tau bakal naik berapa jumlahnya.
Sekitar 1.5 bulan lalu, di kantor kita2 pada nyumbang buat bencana gempa di Sichuan. Aku juga ikutan nyumbang, awalnya nyumbangnya 12% dari gajiku. Setelah itu, selidik2 dulu apa yang ada di pikiran suami (dan mertua). Ternyata di kepalanya suami, nyumbang 24~25% dari gaji juga okeh kok. Habis itu, baru gua ngaku, gua nyumbang 12%.
Besoknya, gua nambah lagi 12%. yang ini gak ngasih tau suami sampai sekarang hehe .. ! rencananya mau ngaku malam ini deh.
Nah, kamis lalu baru ketauan berapa naik gajinya.
Jumlahnya sama persis dengan yang aku sumbangkan itu.
Makanya aku bilang, Tuhan itu aneh ..
Jumlahnya sama persis dengan yang aku sumbangkan itu.
Makanya aku bilang, Tuhan itu aneh ..
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
heart attack and drinking warm water
The Chinese and Japanese drink hot tea with their meals, not cold water, maybe it is time we adopt their drinking habit while eating.For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.
Common Symptoms Of Heart Attack
A serious note about heart attacks - You should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting . Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line .. You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms... 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep.
Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive.
A serious note about heart attacks - You should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting . Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line .. You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms... 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep.Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive.
Monday, June 16, 2008
juice and health
Carrot + Apple + Ginger --- boost and cleanse our system.
Carrot + Apple + Tomato --- improve skin complexion and eliminate bad breath.
Carrot + Apple + Pear + Mango --- clear body heat, counteract toxicity, decreas blood pressure and fight oxidization
Apple + Cucumber + Celery --- prevent cancer, reduce cholesterol, and eliminate stomach upset and headache.
Apple + Cucumber + Kiwi --- improve skin complexion.
Apple + Pineapple + Watermelon --- dispel excess salts, nourish the bladder and kidney.
Orange + Ginger + Cucumber --- improve skin texture and moisture and reduce body heat.
Pear + Banana --- regulate sugar content.
Honeydew + Grape + Watermelon + Milk --- rich in vitamin C and B2; increase cell activity and strengthen body immunity
Papaya + Pineapple + Milk --- rich in vitamin C, E, Iron. Improve skin complexion and metabolism.
Banana + Pineapple + Milk - rich in vitamin with nutritious and prevent constipation
Bitter gourd (pare) + Apple + Milk - avoid bad breath and reduce internal body heat.
Carrot + Apple + Tomato --- improve skin complexion and eliminate bad breath.
Carrot + Apple + Pear + Mango --- clear body heat, counteract toxicity, decreas blood pressure and fight oxidization
Apple + Cucumber + Celery --- prevent cancer, reduce cholesterol, and eliminate stomach upset and headache.
Apple + Cucumber + Kiwi --- improve skin complexion.
Apple + Pineapple + Watermelon --- dispel excess salts, nourish the bladder and kidney.
Orange + Ginger + Cucumber --- improve skin texture and moisture and reduce body heat.
Pear + Banana --- regulate sugar content.
Honeydew + Grape + Watermelon + Milk --- rich in vitamin C and B2; increase cell activity and strengthen body immunity
Papaya + Pineapple + Milk --- rich in vitamin C, E, Iron. Improve skin complexion and metabolism.
Banana + Pineapple + Milk - rich in vitamin with nutritious and prevent constipation
Bitter gourd (pare) + Apple + Milk - avoid bad breath and reduce internal body heat.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
mama's watch
I was washing dishes on Sunday night.
Crystal asked: "Mama, where's your watch?"
Oh my dear ... you noticed it!
I took her to the toilet and explained to her how and why I lost my watch.
I said, "An auntie took mama's watch. but mama didn't know which auntie took it. She didn't return it to mama."
She thought for a while and seriously said, "She is stupid. She has bad manner." (free translation for 她不像话)
Later on she asked me to repeat the story of how and why.
She said, "下次你不要在单位挤奶吧。你就在家里挤奶，好吧?"
She also said, "next time you buy a new watch. Ok?"
Daddy asked her, "what's price of watch should we buy for mama?"
Using her fingers to form a sign for eight, she said, "Eighty yuan."
when i got back from office this evening, she asked, "mama, have you bought a new watch?"
oh dear .. she thinks, buying a watch is just like buying some bread, candy, or fruit for her, like i often do when get back from office.
Crystal asked: "Mama, where's your watch?"
Oh my dear ... you noticed it!
I took her to the toilet and explained to her how and why I lost my watch.
I said, "An auntie took mama's watch. but mama didn't know which auntie took it. She didn't return it to mama."
She thought for a while and seriously said, "She is stupid. She has bad manner." (free translation for 她不像话)
Later on she asked me to repeat the story of how and why.
She said, "下次你不要在单位挤奶吧。你就在家里挤奶，好吧?"
She also said, "next time you buy a new watch. Ok?"
Daddy asked her, "what's price of watch should we buy for mama?"
Using her fingers to form a sign for eight, she said, "Eighty yuan."
when i got back from office this evening, she asked, "mama, have you bought a new watch?"
oh dear .. she thinks, buying a watch is just like buying some bread, candy, or fruit for her, like i often do when get back from office.
Thursday, June 05, 2008
4th
happy world environment day!
this is our 4th anniversary. no special celebration this year. my hubby was busy these days for reporting and papers --- he just finished his 50-day-training. he was the best trainee among 8.
no special celebration .. but we got a special gift .. our lill Qiqi =)
during dinner, i told him i lost my watch.
he simply said, "never mind. i'll buy another one for you."
i said, "no ... for the time being i prefer wearing only a not-more-than-50-yuan-watch."
this is our 4th anniversary. no special celebration this year. my hubby was busy these days for reporting and papers --- he just finished his 50-day-training. he was the best trainee among 8.
no special celebration .. but we got a special gift .. our lill Qiqi =)
during dinner, i told him i lost my watch.
he simply said, "never mind. i'll buy another one for you."
i said, "no ... for the time being i prefer wearing only a not-more-than-50-yuan-watch."
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
how old is your brain (memory)? -fun-
after 3,2,1
remember the numbers and their location.
click from smaller to bigger numbers respectively.
click NEXT
click START
http://www.5s5j.com/news/show.asp?id=20464
i am "20".
remember the numbers and their location.
click from smaller to bigger numbers respectively.
click NEXT
click START
http://www.5s5j.com/news/show.asp?id=20464
i am "20".
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
jam tanganku hilang !!!!
Poor me ..
Jam tanganku hilang di toilet kantor, entah diembat sapa.
Gak terlalu mahal sih, gak semahal rolex tentunya.
Tapi kalo dirupiahkan, 1.5 jeti.
Dan itu kado ultah dari suami tahun lalu. aaah... sial.
Salah sendiri juga nih .. siapa suruh ceroboh yah ..!
kemungkinan paling gede, toilet hanya dikunjungi rekan2 kantor.
total ada 10 cewek, tidak termasuk diriku.. yang menurutku tak satupun punya bakat dicurigai. they are all so nice ladies.
selain mereka ada 3 orang janitor perempuan. yang 2 juga kayaknya so nice. yang satu lagi, kurang tau, orang baru.
kebetulan jam saat kehilangan, gak ada tamu dari luar.
jadi paling besar kemungkinan adalah salah satu dari ke-13 orang ini. i have no clue.
tega ya ... !
kapok !
besok2 kalo beli jam tangan lagi, beli yang 50-an ribu aja ah.
biar kalo pun ilang, gak sakit hati lagi.
Jam tanganku hilang di toilet kantor, entah diembat sapa.
Gak terlalu mahal sih, gak semahal rolex tentunya.
Tapi kalo dirupiahkan, 1.5 jeti.
Dan itu kado ultah dari suami tahun lalu. aaah... sial.
Salah sendiri juga nih .. siapa suruh ceroboh yah ..!
kemungkinan paling gede, toilet hanya dikunjungi rekan2 kantor.
total ada 10 cewek, tidak termasuk diriku.. yang menurutku tak satupun punya bakat dicurigai. they are all so nice ladies.
selain mereka ada 3 orang janitor perempuan. yang 2 juga kayaknya so nice. yang satu lagi, kurang tau, orang baru.
kebetulan jam saat kehilangan, gak ada tamu dari luar.
jadi paling besar kemungkinan adalah salah satu dari ke-13 orang ini. i have no clue.
tega ya ... !
kapok !
besok2 kalo beli jam tangan lagi, beli yang 50-an ribu aja ah.
biar kalo pun ilang, gak sakit hati lagi.
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